Everybody wants to have a Bridge to Terabithia

Last night saw a film called “Bridge to Terabithia” (Bridge to Terabithia) movie moved me to the bad. The protagonist of the story is a little boy on the five or six year, Jesse, three sisters, a baby sister. Little sister went to school with him every day, go home. The boy who lives in the suburbs, my father in the hardware store to work around the house, planted some fruit and vegetables to supplement the family income.

More introverted boy, poor communication with people in school are often bullied by the seniors. There is talent but his paintings, painted things, even his teachers appreciate. So the boy took my sister to school every day back home, in school bullying by classmates. Sister also bullied by senior students, and even the toilet have to pay a dollar, this is primarily a big fat eight-grade girl. Bullied by a sister, brother, sister, do not help call the shots, only Wowonangnang the urge sister. Until one day the boy in the class to a girl named Leslie.

Leslie attended the class, the boy’s race was more than a second Mingjie Xi. There are many special about Leslie, she wrote a diving articles, he was named in recognition of the teacher in the classroom and read to her when the Church. More Coincidentally, Leslie and Jesse family home even next door. Thus, outgoing personality and Leslie to Jesse gradually became good friends. Since the two people in the school are subject to bullying and high school students unhappy, then they Fang Liaoxue to play at home and around the forest.

Happened, they found a small stream, hung above a thick rope. Two people after a rope swing over the stream, on to another world. In this world, two people could do anything, run fast, strength is amazing, they are completely became a different person. Two people in this world to play the whole day, here become their kingdom. Gradually, under the influence in the Leslie, Jesse’s character has changed a lot, will help music teachers to move musical instruments, and also known to help their parents at work. . .

Until one day, Jesse and music teacher in the exhibition from the city home, the parents told him that Leslie had the swing when the piece of the stream, out of the accident, died of drowning. Jesse grief, even in the classroom even beat the boys to bully him before the teacher know that he lost good friends because of the sad, and did not blame him. Gradually, parents and friends of Jesse’s help, slowly get used to life without Leslie, but he made a big difference as before, will take the initiative to help others, and be concerned about my sister, and will be considerate parents. Just as his father told him, Leslie will live forever in his heart.

Whole movie is based on a novel, it is said the creation of the novel to commemorate the motive is of a childhood friend of his son, the same as the plot of the film. Shot the whole movie is quite good, there are young people like the fantasy and romance, but also sweet and warm memories of adults, people of all ages should be able to find in the movies what they want.

“Bridge to Terabithia” is a really good movie!

Travel to Mountain Tai in 2000

I have been to Mountain Tai several times since my first travel  in October 2000.I just entered SDU not longer than a month,October 1st vacation came.So when about six senior high school classmates in Jinan suggested to Mountain Tai in the vacation,they got  hot cheers from everyone.

We hired a microbus from Jinan to Taian with 50 Yuan.We arrived at the foot of Mountain Tai on the afternoon of the first day.The ticket is about 30 Yuan(It’s too long,and I am not sure).We went to the supermarket for a crazy shopping before we got started.We walked along the road around the  mountain with big and small bags.The night come soon.We sang and danced(if it is called “dance”),talking about everyone’s future,without tiredness.

There were seldom tourists and cars on the road that period of time,because the road is built for cars to Gate Zhongtian,about a half of Mountain Tai.And for that reason,we should walk too much long distance than other way,but we have enough time,a whole night.

We take a rest on the bench aside when tired,and walk on.Finally we arrived at Gate Zhongtian at about ten o’clock at night,and there are so many tourists that the road become crowed.So Gate Nantian is our next goal.We can see many foreigners in the crowed,and they get more bigger bags than us.I am puzzled why foreigners always get a big bag on back wherever they are.

More people,more fun.We sing,they sing,and after their singing,our comes.Light from peddlery and tourists looks like a firing dragon along the mountain road.The sidesteps are very narrow,so you must sidle like letter “Z”.It’s boundless darkness around us,and cliff is on your side.

Gate Nantian looks like a little town if you don’t buy anything.A bowl of conjee is saled for 3 Yuan,a incredible high price that time.It’s lucky that we get enough food and drink,although the drink is cold.It gets cold in October for the wind blowing strong on Gate Nantian.We crouched at a lee and play playing cards,Gouji,just for six.

We leave Gate Nantian for Yuhuangding,the highest point of Mountain Tai,for sunrise.We squat on the stones with umbrellas against the strong wind.Waiting and waiting,cold and cold again.The sky becomes a little red in the distance,and everyone cheers with exciting.A little part of red sun comes from the cloud,with the flash of cameras,but the moment of sunrise is very short.We are lucky than some others that go for sunrise and missed,because we get a beautiful sunrise for our first travel to Mountain Tai.

We walk back to the foot at the next morning after we arrived.We missed a lot of famous landscape for our tiredness.I think i am the most tired one among us.I can even not hear and feel anything,just step automatically.The feeling is the sole time in my life until nowadays.

I follow my partners shuttling in Taian Ciry for the bus station.I get asleep deeply after we get on the bus back to Jinan.I think I will not wake up if there is an earthquake,because i am too tired.

Go For Outing TombSweeping Day

2008/04/03 I have been forward for an outing for a long time,and my wish will come true this weekend.

The company arranges an outing for tomb-sweeping day this weekend,so I have the chance to go outside for views in spring.It is rested on ideas but actions myself.I am always forward to take a time for outing when busy,but lazy to do when free.

Tomb-sweeping Day,a Chinese traditional festival,was once declared is a festival of Korea.What a big fun!But it tells us an alarm to protect our traditional cultures,including our festivals.

Associated with recent Tibet Insurgence and Taiwan Vote ,we should wake up to the latent perils around us in the world.To develop is the best way,just like Deng Xiaoping says.Whatever they do and however they say,first of all,we should improve our national power.

It is also applicable for a man that only you are powerful is the best way to solve problems.What you do and say seems so weak if you are weak,contrarily,it looks different if you are strong and rich.

To be authoritative,first to be strong.No one will say “NO” to you if you are strong and powerful,and all of problems will be not problems.Just so easy!

I attended Jin’s Wedding Party Yesterday

2006/12/11 Yesterday,December 10,is the most important and happy day of Jin Shimei,my university classmate.She get married with one of her workmates.

Jin Tingshun,Yang Shoukun,Zhu Xiaojie,Zhang Shijun and me went to attended her wedding party.Everyone of us gave a handsel to her,RMB one hundred yuan.Its the first i sew her since we left school more than two years ago.She is very beatiful and charming yesterday, and i wish she will be happy forever in the future days.Best wishes for the fresh couple.

We are late for the entrance of fresh because of Zhang’s late,so our five guys take a seat together.But it seems that most of the tables are supposed to ready for more than ten people.

Jin is the frist married girl of my college classmates.Maybe too long time i have no seen them,its too unexpected to get the news of her marriage.Maybe i am dropped behind the times,or my mind is out of season.There are some responsibilitys for adults to endure.Just like the name of a song,”Promise don’t come easy!”There is something that we should and have to face although you dont want to,and there is some reponsibilitys that we have to endure.Waiting,escaping,fantasy…is not the way to get your life better.

There is no free lunch.No pains,no gains.Active attitude and positive action is the most effective solutions.

我不经常做梦,并不是不做梦。
有时候,我一晚上都在做梦,尽管有时候是醒着的,但我自己分不清是梦还是醒。做的梦太多了,以至于醒过来了许久之后,我还以为是在梦里。
梦到好的事情的时候,我以为都是真的;梦到不开心的事情,半夜里醒来,心里会变得很脆弱。
我记得好像是看过一部电影,还是做过一个梦。说整个世界都是一个孩子的梦,如果这个孩子醒来,这个世界就到了末日了。
我现在坐在这里打字,是梦,还是醒?
弗洛伊德想过这些问题吗?
梦?醒?

人是善忘的

我没有学过心理学,也没有读过关于人的记忆方面的书,所以说对人的记忆或者说遗忘没有什么研究。但是以我亲身的体验,我得出了一个经验:人是善忘的!
原本我以为人这一生中肯定有些东西是你所不能忘怀的,但是我错了!之所以没有忘记是因为时间不够长,如果五十年后,你还记得,那么再过一百年呢?假设你能活这么久的话。其实用不了一百年,很多事情你就会遗忘了。
确切说,遗忘会有选择性,有些你不想记得的事情,就遗忘的比较快;有些事情就会慢些,但终究会忘记。你不想记起的事情,就会被放在角落里,轻易的不会被触及,这样时间久了,自然就会被过滤掉了。就像你不喜欢的玩具一样,长时间被丢在角落里,某段时间之后,甚至你都不会记得你曾经拥有过她。其实忘了也好,把不开心的事情都忘掉,心中就只有快乐了。人的大脑应该就像硬盘一样,总会有一定的存储空间,删掉忧伤,存储快乐!借两句王菲的歌词,来释怀我所忘记的。。。
背影是真的人是假的没什么执着
一百年前你不是你我不是我
悲哀是真的泪是假的本来没因果
一百年后没有你也没有我

候鸟倒计时

晚上在网上闲溜达的时候,看到一片帖子说网友自发组织悼念姜岩。我第一反应是,这姜岩是个什么人物,能让这么些人怀念,肯定是个抗击兵学什么的英雄。搜索了一下,原来是一个为清自杀的女子。
具体的事情过程我也没有仔细看,反正这种事情也说不清楚。不过,这件事被热抄的原因倒是因为她在临死前两个月的时间里,一直在Live Space上写博客,只是这中间没有对外开放,直到临死前一天才公开。我去看了一下,名字叫做“北飞的候鸟”.其中一片帖子的回复竟然到了6606篇之多,估计可以创下Live Space之最了。
怎么就这么不珍惜生命呢!你的生命不只属于你自己,虽然它的操纵权在你手里。你只要活在这个世上,你就有亲人,朋友,怎么就不为他们想想呢!有什么大不了的,再说比这种事情还要困难的时候多了去了,真的可惜!

常回家看看

过年后回来三天了,这三天里每天都是精神恍惚,做什么事都没有精神,非常地想回家,我想这是一种逃避的想法在作祟。想想过去的这几年,心里非常的惭愧和内疚。总是期待着有什么好的变化,可是到头来一年一年的还是一样。而不管自己怎么样,家人都是一如既往的关心和支持我,这更让我感到内疚和自责。总想为他们做点什么,做点让他们为我感到骄傲自豪的事情来报答他们,而事实上是,我什么都没有做。
这几天,我老是在想过去的这几年,这几年中一些特别的日子,我的经历,有很多事情是让我想起来就很感动的,感动于这种真挚的亲情和无私的爱。真的要好好谢谢他们,谢谢他们对我的爱。自从上大学之后,每年都是过完春节出来之后,直到放年假才回家,无论在哪里,多远多近的距离。现在想起来真是过分,对他们来说太过残忍。其实,这是我在逃避,以为离开他们就可以让自己麻醉,忘掉一些不开心的事情。可是真的能逃避吗,真的能忘掉吗?这是不可能的,一切都需要面对,真诚地面对。所以,我想,以后只要有时间,还是要经常地回家看看,即便是什么都不做,就是看看他们,听听他们的唠叨,听听他们的抱怨,听听他们说说生活上的事,说说家里发生的事,这都是一种无上的幸福。
这样会让我记得至少还有这么多人在爱着我,还有他们在支持我,即便是这个世界抛弃了我,我还有他们,还有他们的爱。